About

Why this exists

Most help for separated dads is angry. Fists, chains, the language of war, "how to win". When you are going through it that framing is everywhere, and it is just about the last thing you or your children need.

Still Their Dad is the opposite, on purpose. It started with one dad going through separation and the family court, finding the same thing over and over: plenty of heat, and very little of the calm, practical, plain-English help that actually puts the children first. So this is that. The version we wished existed at 11pm.

How we do it

Calm, plain-English, and always starting with the children. No anti-mum language, no point-scoring, no "how to fight". Just clear information and wording you can actually use, written for a tired dad reading on his phone.

It is not just a nicer tone, it is what works. The dads who do well in front of the family court are the steady, reasonable, child-focused ones, and everything here is built to help you be that.

Who runs it

It is run by Kevin, a dad who has been through separation and the family court himself, with input from others who have too. We keep it deliberately low-key: the point is the information, not us.

How it is set up, and money

Still Their Dad is small and independent, a self-funded, unincorporated association run on a shoestring. It is not a registered charity: the running costs are low enough that it does not need to be, which keeps things simple and free of overheads.

There is no advertising, and nothing here is trying to sell you anything. If any of that ever changes, we will say so plainly on this page.